Charisma, The Science of Influence & Connection: Richard Reid

How to Create Psychological Safety in Your Team

From Ego to Empathy: Reframing Executive Presence

Episode 264 (Richard is based in South Africa)

In this conversation with Richard Reid we explore:

• the true meaning of charisma and why it’s more about how others feel than how you appear

• the role of psychological safety in building trust, influence, and innovation

• why self-awareness is the foundation of authentic leadership

• how emotional leakage can sabotage your message and your team culture

• strategies to reset your internal state between meetings for greater presence

• how leaders can communicate calm during crises through deliberate body language and speech

• the power of micro-habits to improve energy, confidence, and communication

• how reflection and journaling enhance resilience and leadership effectiveness

• practical routines to prevent burnout and show up as your best self

• how leaders can foster a growth mindset and create space for others to shine

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About our guest, Richard Reid:

Richard is the author of "Charisma Unlocked: The Science and Strategy to Captivate, Influence and Succeed in Business".

He was Chief People Officer at a global law firm. He is from the UK and now lives in South Africa.

Learn more about his Masterclasses and coaching at

https://richard-reid.com/live-events/charisma-workshops/

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Key lessons from this conversation:

• Charisma is about how others feel, not how impressive you appear.

• Psychological safety is central to charisma and effective leadership.

• Charisma starts with self-awareness and managing your internal world.

• Reflective routines enhance emotional regulation and presence.

• Effective communication means seeing others as individuals, not objects.

• In a crisis, calm leadership is conveyed through body language and vocal control.

• Leaders need to be intentional with their energy and meeting schedules.

• Small micro-habits, like breathing or posture resets, have a big impact.

• True charisma is sustainable and rooted in authenticity, not performance.

• Teams thrive when members feel safe to express themselves and fail forward.

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